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at the parent of primary school would up, the teacher say:"This mathematics examines the row of your son to count down in the third place and we doubt that his intelligence contains problem, you had better take him to see."Return to in home, see scare thousand times of son, she invigorates spirit to say:"The teacher spreads all over confidence to you, she says that you aren't stupid, as long as hard listen to the lesson make practice more, can must exceed you of sit at the same table."While saying these words, she discovers to spread all over a shining hope a while in the look in the eyes that the son dim.
the kid ascended a junior high school, another parent meeting.The teacher tells her:"Press your son's result, take the entrance examination of point senior high school more difficult."She comes out a school door and say to the son:"The form master teacher satisfies very much to you, as long as step up effort again, promise well pass examination a point senior high school."
senior high school graduation, son a falls a style to solicit students office for the Chin Hua university of quickly and particularly deliver to a her hand especially.At this time, this mother is excitedly tearful, excitedly tap kid's shoulder, "the mother know that you go and you didn't let the mother disappoint."
this mother skillfully passes "tell a lie" to encourage the potential of son's internality, stir up enthusiasm of his study and the spirit of enterprise of the mightiness, let the son change"want me to learn" as"I want to learn", urge him to progress unremittingly, end test into the most ideal point university.The successful fulfillment of this mother is worthwhile we parent's study draw lessons from.
from learn angle but speech, the persons all liked to obey and accept to give public recognition.Speaking for the kid of nonage is more such.They to what all curious, but express one again immature, lack confidence etc. weakness, but to own every bit and very small progresses all thirsty beg the approbation and affirmation.However, we some parents think that speeding up a study is for the kid to like, need not always coax, hold, so animadversion, the Xun scold, even beat and scold have another, encouragement, give public recognition little.Hardly realizing will seriously hurt the kid's self-confident heart and sense of pride so, have of will also produce a treachery, result things go contrary to one's wishes.
the parent wants to respect a kid first, equal mutually treat, laud them from the heart.Secondly have to there is a common heart.Some parents expect to once be worth Gao to the kid and was some impractical target realizations not and then adopt extreme measure to treat a kid.On top of that, the parent needs to understand a kid and observe kid more to have in normal times what kind of a fondness for, have thus of put Shi, encourage a kid, urge them to learn to have to grow, learn to have for.