a 16-year-old youth visit an old wise man.
he ask:How do I become the delectation of an oneself and can also give other people and the person of delectation?
a wise man smile to hope him to say:Kid, at you this age have thus of the wishes was already very rare.A lot of older than you lot of people, can see from their question for ask, ignore to them how much explanation, all let them understand and real important truth impossibly.Have to let they so like.
the youth be full of to devoutly listen to, didn't show unintentionally the slightest self-satisfied color on the face.
a wise man immediately after says:I send four words to you.The first words BE, be oneself as other people.Can you say the meaning of this sentence?
the young answer say:Whether say, at I feel painful grieved of time, be oneself as other people, so pain and sufferings nature ease;When I am jubilantly happy, be oneself as other people, those aring wild with joy would also become Ping-ho in just some?
a wise man be tiny to nod and immediately after say:The second words, be the other people as oneself.
the youth contemplate in a short while and say:So can be real pity the other people's misery, comprehend the other people's need, and at the other people need of time give fitting help?
a wise man two eyes give out light and continue to say:The third words be the other people as other people.
the youth say:The meaning of this sentence say, adequately respect everybody's independence, under the any condition all the core territory of inviolability others?
a wise man roar with laughter:Very good, very good.The Ru son can teach also!The fourth words BE, be oneself as oneself.This sentence comprehension get up too difficult, stay you hereafter slowly taste.
the youth say:The meaning of this sentence, I am to at that time could not realize.But the of these four words have the place of many self-contradictories, I use what then can unify them?
a wise man say:Easy, use life time and career.
the youth be silent for a long time, then kowtow a departure.
afterwards young became prime of life a person, and then became an old man.Again afterwards at him leave this world after a long time, people still always speak of his name.People all say he is an a wise man, because he is a person of delectation, and also brought each person who once saw him delectation.