fail usually not because we don't have thus of real strenght, but at up recognized tacitly a "can't cross over" of height restriction.
six year agos, a friend goes down south to seek job, according to her specialty and the artistic talent, be responsible for a section to circulate not a problem.
I believed the remaining total engineer of company to write a letter of recommendation for an appliance, then let the friend fix a time personal interview.Unexpectedly she but say that oneself has never been a supervisor in this big telecommunication company, afraid of the personal interview can't pass, or don't work, influence the friend's face, have to"look for the second best".
she gives several household-use person's units send first to the resume, fully etc. half month, the result is disappeared to have no news;Immediately after, she finds the area class talented person's market again perhaps an occupation introduction, saw several household-use person's units, is "Gao not become but low not" as a result.End, she make a phone call the remaining total engineer of company is to the telecommunication and the total work does a secretary to connect to conduct electricity words to ask a way:"You seek which"?Her answer say:"Please seek remaining total".The secretary say:"Execuse me, remaining always just in the conference, can I ask you to leave message?"She again embarrassed stay message.
empress of a week, I tell a "the story of flea" for her:Someone once does this experiment:Put a flea into the glass cup, the height which discovers that the flea jump generally can attain its body of 40000%, if increase again some height, the flea jumps not to come out.But when you get hold of the cup bottom to a spirit lamp, the flea heat have to can not stand of time, it the meeting"Mao" the ground jumped to go out all of a sudden.Just like"doom a person to death to and then living" speak on art of war.
the friend comprehend very quickly, once the second day go to work, she always make a phone call for remaining, is the telephone that the secretary connect again, but she keeps shout remaining total name, the secretary dares not to neglect and connect to talk on the phone very quickly ……
now I this friend early has become the design room of that company a supervisor.Remaining always for many times says to me:"I really should thank you, you give us the company to introduce of this colleague be honest, ability, progress most quick."
in fact we many people are also repeat this of"flea life":Because at up recognized tacitly the high extreme limit of a "can't cross over", but willing bear with the life of failed.