Sex is out of tune to include a premature ejaculation, impotence, high tide obstacle, cold etc..Being afraid sexual behavior and worrying in some patients, not only will reduce a fondness for which lives to sex, lose self-confident heart, but also canning result in an obvious penis can't erection.In some several generation together the hall can't the cent the husband and wife of room, sex lives a hour anxious, connect some voice to loudly also want very careful, result in thus feeling tense, energy dispersion, make natural sex glint the process be repress, influence life of satisfy degree, as time passes can result in sex between husband and wife maladjustment.
Some have because to sex of be afraid with worried result in the person of the sex out of tune experience, usually make greatest efforts to attempt to pass many sexual intercourses to overcome frightened in the mind.In this kind of sex trap the husband and wife of sorrow the life the process, husband and wife both parties or one among those squares usually involuntarily pay attention to sex of themselveses or the other party to respond to judge own each action whether exactitude but be eager to beg, so make sex life lose intensely hot intimate of atmosphere, result in last strain and pressure, aggravate sex life not nature, by all means will influence sex life of smoothly progress.The failure of sex life, and then strengthen to the sexual behavior of upset with be afraid, became a vicious cycle.
Have 1:00 worthy of pay attention to BE, worry sexual behavior, sometimes may also from husband and wife of one square direct or indirect, have intention to or not intentionally in the speech or the negligence on the activity and mistake cause or turn worse.For example, the wedding night isn't and successfully living, originally is a very normal phenomenon.If the bride's side blames and scold a male square, may result in a male square very big mental stress;The action is very coarse when the male and square live, cause bride's side bad impression, may also result in the bride's side ache be afraid and the formation is out of tune;Or the newly married have sexual intercourse for the first time, the husband feels that the bride's side responds too and warmly but uses to blame of the tone precept say"the cultivated woman shouldn't move" waits this words, henceforth may can never make her get into a high tide in the sexual intercourse.These sexes are out of tune to all result in because the speech and activity neglect.
Pain and sufferings been been not in the minority by the person of sex maladjustment harassment in the marital life, and resulted in is also very widespread.According to Ma Si especially the Si, John lousy research, cause the reason of sex maladjustment, have a greatly part of is because sexual and stupid perhaps is to"sex" hold again pleased again the evilness self-contradict attitude cause, be also likely to be at or puberty accept the incorrect sex idea result in of bad result.Perplex sexual stupid but causable sex, familiar following various circumstance:
-Don't know that the clitoris is accurate to dissect part.
-Some women don't acquaint with an own sex high tide.
-Think the sexual function must die down with the growth of age.
-Think the man has sexual intercourse each time or the empress of the erection have to shoot Jing each time.
-The liquid which thinks vagina's secreting quantity is to be excited that the degree becomes a comparison with sex.
-Think that shooting after the Jing man's activity has to stop right away.
To the sex out of tune treatment, in addition to carrying on the reason of education, regular correct sex attitude and assurance maladjustment of sex knowledge, had better use some assistance tools to lend support to a treatment.An important standpoint is:Have to see mankind's activity as be a kind of natural instinct, remove various frightened, exaltation the nature of the life, cure of the basic method be the relation which manages husband and wife.Sex activity is the husband and wife's both parties' business, should also follow the principle that husband and wife both parties together cure in the under medical treatment, mutual pass cup considerate, so can obtain better treatment effect.
